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Wat had ik veel zin in deze dag. Het was een zonnige zondag in mei, heren 1 speelde thuis en ’s middags stond er een T-dansje op het programma. Het was mijn eerste T-dansant sinds ik alleen was en dat maakte het meteen de eerste die ik bij zou kunnen wonen zonder geforceerde tijdsdruk of zinloze huwelijkscrisis nadien.
Wij moesten al vroeg hockeyen, dus van de 12 aanwezige teamleden bleef slechts de harde kern van zes meiden over, om rond drie uur ‘s middags langs de lijn te staan bij ons eerste heren team. Daar zaten we dan, in het zonnetje, een biertje in de hand en nog een hele avond voor ons. Het was ouderwets gezellig, mede dankzij het rappe tempo waarmee onze lege bierglazen een refill kregen. Tegen het einde van de wedstrijd verslapte mijn aandacht voor het spel en was mijn blik progressief gericht op de ingang van het complex. Ik keek uit naar ‘de manager van dames 1’, waar ik inmiddels, na een handje vol dates in twee maanden, smoorverliefd op was geworden.
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Maar of ik ooit nog aan dat eerste imago zal ontkomen…? Wie weet.

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